If you’re reading my blog, you’re probably among those fighting for racial justice, some at the macro-level of societal transformation, others working for enhanced understanding among family. Or maybe you’re just beginning to recognize and reflect on the depth, breadth, and impact of racial injustice.
Regardless, here is my question. What drives you: wanting the oppressed to have a greater opportunity or wanting to free the oppressor? To my White readers, today I want to call this out: True racial equity will bring significant benefits … to you.
You’re accustomed to hearing racial justice advocates speak of the needs of the oppressed: lost opportunities, lost potential, a focus on ‘lesser than’ statistics, such as home ownership or educational outcomes. Tangible data is compared across races. And by that data, the White population is better off than communities of color, on multiple fronts. Because of this, the racial equity battle often focuses solely on gains needed for the oppressed.
But, White people, have you ever reflected on what you will gain?
First, your own psychological well-being. You have to believe, to some degree, that Black and brown people are more criminal or less enterprising, for example, to accept their overrepresentation in prisons and underrepresentation in places of academic and financial success. Noted author and activist James Baldwin suggested that White America needs to believe in Black pathology to justify what has been, and continues to be, done and to alleviate any obligation to fix the true problem. Yes? No? Is there cognitive dissonance, a disconnect between what you say you believe (everybody has a fair chance) and what is the allowed reality in America?
Now to history. What has been lost to White people by not fully understanding our country’s history? As more comprehensive explanations of historical ‘facts’ are revealed, are you looking more critically at your heroes, at the foundation of America? Are you considering what/who supported your ancestors’ or immediate forbearers’ ability to pull themselves up by their bootstraps? Did they really do that? “Pull themselves up by their bootstraps,” I mean? No supportive government programs? Think about the GI Bill or preferential housing or unconstrained banking policies. No help from families or social networks better positioned to offer help? How is your authentic sense of self affected? Is there some internal alignment that needs to happen to make your world view/your familial context more coherent with truth?
Then just one more thing. There has been a lot of attention given to the value of diversity in the workplace. Problem-solving, research has shown, benefits from different viewpoints, people with varying experiences of life. Varied thinking and cultures are enriching, not limiting. If this is true in the workplace, why would it be different in friendship groups or neighborhoods? What is missed by having racial homogeneity in so many parts of your life?
The balance of assets and societal power is unequal. That is true, but adjusting that imbalance doesn’t make anyone a loser. Everyone wins. We all win if fewer resources are used, for example, to imprison, freeing up more to support asset building, the true provision of quality education for all, clean water everywhere, or medical research. Who loses if more Black or brown people can purchase homes, building their wealth and ability to contribute even more to our country’s economic viability?
I know there is an intangible benefit to resolving the internal moral or psychological battle among some in the White community. There is significant inherent value in embracing the humanity and worth of all people. And there is tangible value to more people contributing to the common good.
As I write this, I realize I am struggling to find the right words. I can’t make the case as eloquently as I would like. Still, I know that the deficit model of fighting for racial equity is neither the full story nor the best strategy. Self interest is a powerful motivator. You must fight for racial equity as a benefit to the oppressor and to the oppressed. As Ibram Kendi has said if you aren’t fighting against racism, you are a part of the problem, a part of what is causing all of us to lose. Racial equity is a win for everyone.
14 Replies to “White people, there is so much to gain.”
Tamara, you found the “right words” to describe the benefits of racial equity to all people, freeing people of color from oppression, past or present.
Thanks, Debra. I hope you’ll share the message with others.
Your last paragraph makes your point. Keep prompting and posting … folks like me are listening and learning.
Thanks, Connie, for your comment and for joining me on this learning and advocacy journey. Please share the post with others as you see fit.
Sister Tamara — Your post is so powerful and so timely. I have begun a practice of trying to identify the moments in my daily life when I am harmed by white supremacy, when I find myself expending energy to keep that very system in place. Right now I understand this abstractly, and your post helps me to get closer to being able to name each moment and make choices in that moment. Which stories will I hear? When am I allowing a deficit mentality to keep me from bring my full self into a relationship? How long did I spend working through the dissonance of not speaking my truth because I was defaulting to “polite”? Thank you so much, as always, for sharing your wisdom.
Phyllis, Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for the conscious and important steps that you are thinking. Please let me know if there are other ways that I can support your new practice. Wishing you the best. Tamara
Another powerful blog, and you did use the “right words.”
Your question in the beginning is significant: “What drives you: wanting the oppressed to have a greater opportunity or wanting to free the oppressor? To my white readers, today I want to call this out: True racial equity will bring significant benefits … to you.”
In the past, my answer would have been for the oppressed to have greater opportunities. But after the past year of reading, reflecting, and discussing, I am recognizing what the white community has lost. Keep writing; in your strong and positive style you will keep us moving us forward. Thank you.
Thanks, Joanie. Anyone who writes wonders if their writing makes a difference. It is reassuring to know that my posts are a part of your racial equity learning journey. I hope you will consider sharing this one, or others, with others who might benefit from the perspective and knowing that it resonated with you. Take care.
A profoundly important perspective that we don’t hear enough. It adds substance to the aspiration toward our better angels. Thanks, as always, for sharing your insights.
Janet, thank you for your comment. I hope you will share this post with others who might benefit from the message. We’re all working to connect more fully with our better angels.
Well expressed and passionately logical. Thank you! AeO
Thank you, Tamara. This point of view needs to be heard by All. I have sent this to many of my white friends.
The ERA also would benefit All for the same reasons.